knowing u....

is it true that u have to know sum1 to love sum1.....
or is it your first instinct about that sum1 that makes u fall in love....
thru experience, i think the first instinct effects you the most,
u can accept sum1 and think that u will fall in love with that person once u know him/her.
but isnt that risky? ull have the risk of hurting or being hurt since u r already 'with' that person,
let me elaborate on my points....
what i meant by knowing sum1 is not knowing 'knowing', its knowing about his personality, his attitude and his believes. ape aku nak ckp pon dah tak ingat! haha! ok ok, let me think!!!
so.....ok, basically....its true that u have to KNOW that person first and never EVER accept him/her before knowing him/her thoroughly. think before you jump.....
but....on 2nd thought, love works in mysterious ways.....the first instinct that u have when u meet that person, the butterflies in your stomach, the makan tak lalu, tido tak lena feeling, is that a sign from god or is that just lust? its like u have a strong feeling that the person is the one, n knowing that he feels the same towards u...ohhh best gile!
2nd but....u cant love sum1 just because of his looks or money rite...according to the hadith, u have to choose according to 4 things:-

1. agama
   
2. rupa
3. keturunan
4. harta

agama is the first thing u have to look at, so if u choose base on these 4 things, inshallah allah will be on ur side.....im praying hard that allah will 'jodohkan' me with sum1 dat suits me according to that 4 things. ameeeeen¬